June 8, 2009

My Best Friends...

The last time I wrote something on this topic was an essay for my English class in 4th standard.... around 11 years back! And now, at 20.8 years, I'm all charged up to write on My Best Friends... people who're responsible for taking care of me outside the sheltered confines of my family. Radhika, Rao, Aanchal and Ajay are the heroines and hero of my post. It's really personal to talk about my equation with them, but then, today, I'm just so happy after a looooong time and they're the reason behind it! So, it's them all in the way on my blog!

I've never really talked about my equation  with Radhika and Rao ever on my blog. There's no need for it, because somehow I feel that the relationship we have transcends words, because I, honestly don't have words for them. From listening to the same old stories of mine for 1000 times and still being game for it for the 1001 time, Rads, you seriously have some patience man! And you never even interrupt me and tell me the count of the incident that I'm regaling to you! And you're the sweetest person along with Akshata.... because you two are the only two people on Earth who laugh like crazy on my jokes and make me feel that I'm good at being funny! From being the only friend I had for almost 3 months..from wiping and consoling and saying the same things over and over again without getting frustrated for 4 years ...to having the guts to put up with a 2 hour-every day crying person for 3 months , to still putting up with my BYEs when I'd be with him, leaving you in the lurch! I couldn't have asked for a better best friend! 


Rao.... I know you still hate me for eating that Fruit and Nut which was meant for someone else, but dude, you should've researched before giving a gift to the girl you were planning to ask out! I can't help it if she doesn't like chocolates and I'm the chocoholic best friend of hers! But, seriously, the way you used to come online late at night only because I was lonely in US with no one online during my 'awake' hours.... that meant so much to me! Trust me, the chocs I got for you from there were nothing for what you'd done for me in those 3 months! From hating to a person, not beacuse he didn't like you, but because I had cried for him.... to listening to my Eostrogen mood swings every three days.... you come next to Rads in the patience-o-meter!! 


Aanch...I call her my soul-sister. The only place where we differ is that I'd be cool with a not-so-tall guy unlike her!! From liking the same guys to fighting over them (well, more like me abusing her because she'd be the one who'd go and talk...just taking advantage of the fact that I can't really talk to people I like!) to crying one after the other.... almost everytime... ain't it... one week you... one week me! And of course celebrating our first-time-meeting anniversary on 10th Aug! There are so many instances with her that it'd be an encyclopedia when penned down! From the way we both felt that 'void' no one else did at Hyatt's coffee shop the day after my birthday ....by just the way our eyes drifted away while talking....to keeping that hand on my head at the Suncity bus-stop with me trying so hard to tell you things but just couldn't get myself to talk about it... to fighting over Mohali and Chennai.... to keep gushing over Edward Cullen and various other hunks (except Nauman and ZAc Efron...I hate them, they're **y!)... to making deals over extra-marital affairs with the other's husband... to snatch the other's baby name, the baby's place in the Indian Cricket Team (jersey no 11!!)... to promising to snatch only my temporary pyaar and leaving my permanent pyaar all for myself...to rolling your sleeve in the middle of the road to bash up the epicenter of all my troubles.... to that one conversation at the Window sill in Vapi at 3 in the morning, that just showed me how strong a person I've been and which changed my life. Forever. Thanks for forcing me to talk that day.... I would'nt have been able to write about Ajay otherwise! And if I don't get the first call after your water breaks from your hubby.... I'll run away with him while you're still in labour! Remember my warning!!






Ajay was the third particpant of Aanchal and my Window Sill convo at Vapi... during our IV there....well, like I said, the night of 13th Jan .... changed my life, for good. I got a new best friend!! From keeping me sane one month before the Boards so that I could write my exams (yeah, and then giving me murderous looks when I'd taken a supplement!!)... to clearing my head every 5 hours everyday during March.... to being on mute conference for 3 hours so that I wouldn't break down while talking... to wanting to massacre everyone I knew at one point of time because they all were only aggravating things and not alleviating pain... to always be the one who'd get a smile on Aanch's and my face....and of course.... for getting Aanchal and me to abuse and think cheap....People tried, but couldn't do it for 2 years... but you did it in what...2 days?! Shit man! You're going to hell, Ajay! BTW, you owe me a Fruit and Nut for 15th March!
And if you don't pick up my calls in 5 rings after you get married or move in with your girlfriend (if you're lucky to land one!) because you were busy.... you'd get a kick from me on your self-proclaimed callipygian ass! (I wanted to kick in a more strategic position but then, I want you to give me a niece so that I can name her something that doesn't sound like FLICKA! It seriously sounds like a shoplifter's name!)


For people who've read this, must be wondering what a sad person I am....to be crying all the time..! But no, it was just the past 5 months which have been bad.... only because Murphy's Law came into picture..... every bad thing possible....happened....at the worst possible time! But now, I'm back...to my old self.  Thanks to Ajay and Aanchal today... Gosh! I've never laughed as much as today ever in my life! Freaking crazy!! BTW, I'd like to warn the four of you, that when you're taking the GD and PI of the guy wanting to marry me... you better be damned good at it...! Because if the guy I marry turns out to be a jackass in the end.... I won't leave you alive! I've just given you one responsibility in my entire life...so you better not disappoint me! Rads you have to make sure he's better than him.... Rao you don't have to get any guy from areas like Chinchpockli and Naala Sapara for me or someone Atal Bihari Vajpayee's age for me. LK Advani's age won't do either! I know I'm a big kabab main haddi... but please don't be a sadist! Aanch, I trust you like hell in the PI thing... I'm sure my prospective groom'd come out and tell me, "Your friends, either are big time sadists or they just simply love you to death" after YOU interview him! And Ajay.... you've gotta make sure he has conviction in his voice when he says he loves me (if ever there's a guy who would!!). 

17 comments:

aanchal said...

aah..i love you..my bros gna kill you though fr ruining his laptop..his keypad is soaked with salty water droplets frm my lachrymal glands!im nt gna say nethng but this: i love you FOREVER...trust you to figure out the rest of it my little deep browneyed bella..

Nupur said...

@ Aanch:Ah!! Why aren't you a guy!?! You'd even be off my GD-PI rule!!

aanchal said...

its ok..ill b ure mkeshift edward..neways im contemplatin chasing u cz guys r outta reach these dayz..bdw v r ready our kinda 'union' will b legalised probably..p.s.as mch as i love the pic..y r out asses on public display?

Nupur said...

@Aanch: You continue to dazzle me!! And startle me too!!

The asses are on a display to show Ajay how he's not as hot as he thinks he is!!

arshat.chaudhary said...

awww.. arent u girls cute!
Nupur you know now why I always return here. None of the bloggers I read could have opened their hearts so easily to their readers. You must have a real clean conscience...
Though I dont knw, rao and ajay, judging frm aanchal, i m pretty sure they are supercool..
I didnt know u were unhappy in the last 5 months, u always seeemed to write happy posts..
This definitely is among ur most heart touching posts..keep writing..

Nupur said...

@ Arshat: Thanks once again... but you're the only one who finds Aanch and me cute!! Our friends are sick and tired of us!
I wasn't too sure I wanted to write this one... but then I wanted to let the world know that there are genuinely good people around!! So i wrote....though i thot of deleting it later!
Yeah, Ajay and Rao are supercool.... I mean any guy who can stand crying women has to be supercool!!! And Rads is also supercool!!
Unhappy.... well, that's life, ain't it! But then, again, you're the only one who's trying to say i can mask my emotions well!!
Thanks once again...!

aanchal said...

u knw nupur u shud rename ur blog to lets flatter aanch!!

Nupur said...

@ Aanch: Hehe!!! Yeah.. I'm on the lookout for a new name for my blog anyways!!

ankit said...

so nw ur back............

M VERY HAPPY UR R!!!!!!!!!!!

hope u nevr face such a phase again...........tc!!!!!

Nupur said...

@ Ankit: Thanks yaar!!! You've been good too....atleast you didn't talk like others had been!!!

ajay said...

SOB..SOB..Thank u so much nupur..Its always been a pleasure to know you..Thanks for appreciating my efforts dear ur the only one who has done it in 21 years of my selfless existence..AND you will definately find an EDWARD and we shall all help u in dat quest..and u r d only person who can call me even when i am ahem..ahem.. and whose call i'll certainly pick up within 5 rings :)

Nupur said...

@ Ajay: I hate you!! You made me cry!!!

Aanchal said...

nobody loves me!

Nupur said...

@ Aanch: You want me to count how many people LOVE you??

left unseen yet seen because.... said...

REALLY TOUCHING...UR A GEM OF A PERSON HENCE UR GIFTED WIT GEMS

Nupur said...

@ Manalee: Aren't you sweet?!?! Love ya !!

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